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My lovely wife... RIP

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Stumpy

08/02/2021 11:26PM

God keep you, Darcy. You were the greatest thing that ever happened to me. My heart is broken beyond belief.

As a dog returneth to his vomit, so a fool returneth to his folly

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MNGreene

08/02/2021 11:58PM

I am very sorry Stumpy. My condolences.

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jhb8426

08/03/2021 12:48AM

So sorry Stumpy.
Take care.

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airmorse

08/03/2021 12:55AM

Oh Stumpy...I am sorry to hear this.

From our emails it was clear that you loved her very much.

May the Lord welcome her into Heaven with open arms.

You take care.

"In wilderness is the salvation of mankind." Thoreau.

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andym

08/03/2021 04:18AM

Stumpy, I’m so sorry. That picture shows what a wonderful life you had together. Thank you for sharing that and please accept my condolences and thoughts of strength for the days ahead. Andy

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santacruz

08/03/2021 05:33AM

I am. so sorry for your loss, May God comfort you and your family in the days ahead

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jillpine

08/03/2021 05:49AM

So sorry, Stumpy. Wishing you peace and strength in this difficult and heart-breaking time.
Beth

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snakecharmer

08/03/2021 06:19AM

My sincere condolences.

"Many men go fishing all of their lives without knowing it is not fish they are after"
~ Henry David Thoreau

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Mocha

08/03/2021 06:26AM

So sorry to read this. She will be with you forever.

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billconner

08/03/2021 06:44AM

My sincere condolences. Celebrate the good memories.

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Portage99

08/03/2021 07:29AM

I'm so sorry for the loss of your wife. You have my deepest sympathies.

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woodsandwater

08/03/2021 07:37AM

So sorry you have lost your best friend and life partner. God be with you and hold as you grieve.

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mjmkjun

08/03/2021 07:47AM

A touching picture. God's comfort in your grief/broken heart.

“If I have seen further it is by standing on the shoulders of giants.” Sir Isaac Newton

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Savage Voyageur

08/03/2021 07:54AM

So sorry to hear this. My sincere condolences for you and your family.

"So many lakes, so little time." WWJD

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boonie

08/03/2021 08:01AM

So sorry to hear that, Stumpy. May you find peace in the memory of the love and good times.

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yellowcanoe

08/03/2021 08:29AM

Oh No! so sad so young. My heart goes out to you!

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napinch

08/03/2021 08:46AM

Stumpy,
I am very sorry for your loss - That's a very sweet picture to remember her by. My condolences.
Luke

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Northwoodsman

08/03/2021 09:01AM

I'm very sorry for your loss. My condolences.

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Jaywalker

08/03/2021 09:06AM

I’m deeply sorry about your loss Stumpy. Peace.

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ScottL

08/03/2021 09:36AM

I'm so sorry for your loss Stumpy. I will keep you and your family in my prayers.

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bfurlow

08/03/2021 09:37AM

So sorry to hear this. My thoughts are with you and your family.

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Speckled

08/03/2021 09:40AM

Ahh man...Stumpy. I'm so sorry to hear this. My sincere condolences.

"Fool me once, shame on...shame on you. Fool me, can't get fooled again" - W

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PeaceFrog

08/03/2021 10:00AM

Stumpy - so sad to hear of your loss. May all of your memories live with you forever. Sincere condolences.
Joe

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Banksiana

08/03/2021 10:17AM

So sorry to hear.Condolences for you and your family.

Nobody exists on purpose, nobody belongs anywhere, everybody’s going to die.

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gkimball

08/03/2021 10:50AM

God be with you. I can't recall where I first read the following verse, but it has stayed with me ever since:

"Those who love each other, never see each other for the last time."

Want to make God laugh? Tell him your plans...

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Frenchy19

08/03/2021 11:05AM

Be kind to yourself, Stumpy. Thoughts and prayers to all family and friends.

"The future ain't what it used to be" Yogi Berra

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missmolly

08/03/2021 11:33AM

If you're up to sharing, Stumpy, what was she like? What did you love about her?

I will paddle eternal, Kevlar and carbon.

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Kiporby

08/03/2021 11:41AM

So very sorry Stumpy. Prayers, hugs and condolences!

There is a light and it never goes out. Morrissey

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TuscaroraBorealis

08/03/2021 12:03PM

Prayers

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fadersup

08/03/2021 12:30PM

Very sorry for your loss, may you find some peace in remembering the good times together.

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Argo

08/03/2021 12:49PM

Dreadful news Stumpy. Hang in there.

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Jackfish

Moderator

08/03/2021 12:52PM

Ed, so sorry to hear the news. You and your family have my deepest sympathies.

"Keep close to Nature's heart, yourself; and break clear away, once in a while, and climb a mountain or spend a week in the woods. Wash your spirit clean." ~ John Muir

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Pinetree

08/03/2021 12:59PM

So sorry for you and your Families loss. Prayers are with you. Your going to go thru some hard times now. Just remember the great life you had with her. Also the friends you have out there. Don't be afraid to reach out to them when needed.
Take care Stumpy.

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Pinetree

08/03/2021 01:04PM

andym: "Stumpy, I’m so sorry. That picture shows what a wonderful life you had together. Thank you for sharing that and please accept my condolences and thoughts of strength for the days ahead. Andy"

You could see the love and care in Her eyes.

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Bearpath9

08/03/2021 01:09PM

Stumpy

You have my sincerest sympathy.

Respect Mother Nature, because She has no respect for you

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Freeleo1

08/03/2021 02:29PM

So sorry to hear. It reminds us all to value the time we have with the people we love. It's often too short. May memories of the good times you had together remain with you always.

"Geography is just physics slowed down, with a couple of trees stuck in it." Terry Pratchett

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HowardSprague

08/03/2021 03:00PM

That's an amazing photo capturing a beautiful moment in time together. I am so sorry Ed.

"Enjoy every sandwich"

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Voyager

08/03/2021 04:03PM

My condolences Stumpy. There's nothing as special and unforgettable as being cared for and loved by the right woman. I hope somehow the memories of your friend, companion, buddy, and lover will help you in your anguish.

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Spartan2

08/03/2021 04:03PM

She was beautiful, and you will always remember her that way. Thank you for including us by sharing that photograph. Our hearts are aching for you, Stumpy, and you have our sincere sympathy. The Spartans

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Loony_canoe

08/03/2021 04:25PM

So very Sad. Sincerest Condolences.

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preacherdave

08/03/2021 04:39PM

So sorry to hear. Makes the little trials I go through seem small. Praying for you and your family.

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Soledad

08/03/2021 04:52PM

I am so sorry Stumpy. My heart aches with yours.

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RunningFox

08/03/2021 06:03PM

May God’s strength, peace, understanding, and comfort surround you and your family at this time.

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tumblehome

08/03/2021 06:44PM

Ole' Stumpy.

I've not said anything to this point because I didn't know what to say. I think the group has said the best words. I feel real bad for you. I'm sorry for your loss.

Is there a funeral? Where?

Tom

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Canoearoo

08/03/2021 06:45PM

Praying for you

Life jackets float, you don't!

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nctry

08/03/2021 07:28PM

So sorry Stumpy... I can’t imagine there are words a person can say that would bring any comfort. But just know there are plenty of fellow paddlers that will have you in our prayers and such. Your wife was a lucky gal to have such a caring husband. Hang in there...

Nctry

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straighthairedcurly

08/03/2021 07:29PM

Hugs to you. Such sad news. Glad you have loads of great memories.

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MHS67

08/03/2021 07:29PM

I can't imagine. Sorry for the loss.
Larry

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Trix

08/03/2021 07:41PM

So sorry for your loss Stumpy. Sending lots of Hugs to you and your family.

C-H-A-L-L-E-N-G-E: Do not let what you cannot do, interfere with what you can do.

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CabinAfter

08/03/2021 07:58PM

That brought me to tears just looking at the picture. Places like the BWCA are special because we get to share them with our loved ones. What an incredible life you two must have made together. My thoughts and prayers to you and your family.

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gqualls

08/03/2021 08:05PM

Thank you for sharing the picture; it spoke volumes.
I am sorry for your loss; grace and peace to you in the days ahead.
I’m

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Ohiopikeman

08/03/2021 08:28PM

My condolences Stumpy. That's a great picture you shared; it clearly shows a highpoint in your life together.

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timatkn

08/03/2021 08:52PM

Thank you for sharing on this website. My heart aches for you…thoughts and prayers going your way.

T

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3Ball

08/04/2021 02:05AM

My deepest condolences. I wish I could offer words that would relieve some of your pain.

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Outdoorsfan69

08/04/2021 08:24AM

So very, very sorry to hear this. I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers.

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Michwall2

08/04/2021 08:51AM

My condolences. I am very sorry for you loss. Please take care of yourself and your family.

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Captn Tony

08/04/2021 09:54AM

You and your family are on my thoughts and prayers.
Sincerely,
CT

You're going to HELL and you're going to drag me with ya!! -Gunsmoke

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shock

08/04/2021 11:57AM

so sorry to hear of your lose , prayers for you and your family

keep your line wet, good things will happen

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Mo63021

08/04/2021 12:52PM

I am at a loss for words, please accept my condolences.

Lake voyage in a canoe is always better when shared with others, either during or after the trip

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cycle003

08/04/2021 01:18PM

I am so sorry for your loss.

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salukiguy

08/04/2021 01:45PM

So sorry to hear this. You are not alone. I lost my wife not long ago also.

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OgimaaBines

08/04/2021 02:56PM

I'm so sorry Stumpy. Take care of yourself.

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paddlefamily

08/04/2021 04:12PM

My sympathy to you and your family. I hope the sweet memories together bring comfort to you in the days ahead.

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BearMandolin

08/04/2021 06:26PM

So sorry for your loss. May God bless you and keep you.

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mmrocker13

08/04/2021 08:09PM

I am so sorry <3

"Let us think the unthinkable, let us do the undoable, let us prepare to grapple with the ineffable itself, and see if we may not eff it after all."

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scramble4a5

08/04/2021 08:46PM

Very sorry for your loss. My prayers are with you during this difficult time.

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Stumpy

08/04/2021 10:57PM

tumblehome: "Ole' Stumpy.

I've not said anything to this point because I didn't know what to say. I think the group has said the best words. I feel real bad for you. I'm sorry for your loss.

Is there a funeral? Where?

Tom"

Wake at Grove Memorial Chappel.
Friday 2:00-9:00
1199 S. Arlington Heights Road.
Elk Grove Village.

Services Saturday at
Village Point Church
801 Beisner Road
Elk Grove Village, IL
10:00 visitation
11:00 Church Service

As a dog returneth to his vomit, so a fool returneth to his folly

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adam

Moderator

08/05/2021 06:06AM

I am terribly sorry for your loss. Thoughts and prayers for your family.

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heavylunch

08/05/2021 07:59AM

So sorry for your loss...

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Blatz

08/05/2021 08:44AM

Very Sorry for your loss

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mgraber

08/05/2021 10:44AM

That is terribly sad, I cannot imagine. Prayers sent.

So many fish,so little time

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scat

08/05/2021 11:02AM

Very sad for you. That is a great pic. I can only hope you can take some measure of consolation in that you two had such a great relationship for so many years. You are very lucky in that way. I’m sure you have many great memories. May peace come to your heart and soul in time. scat

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520eek

08/05/2021 04:12PM

So sorry to read this. My condolences to you and family.

I couldn't wait for success, so I went ahead without it!

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walllee

08/05/2021 04:20PM

So sorry Stumpy….

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TomT

08/05/2021 10:15PM

So sorry to hear this. Peace to you and your family.

"Life is not about finding yourself. Life is about creating yourself." --- George Bernard Shaw

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Stumpy

08/18/2021 01:56AM

Bless you all !
I cried again, as I read through all the comments.
You are all wonderful.
It's been two weeks now & my heart is absolutely broken.
I'm alone now and open to canoe with others, but mind you, I'm a stubborn old jerk.
But I'm open to the idea...... canvas & Aluminum ;)
special thanks to Magic Paddler & Howard Sprague, & (nctry ?) or who ever bought the flowers ?

Again.... thank you all.... you all made me cry.... and that's good
LOVE

As a dog returneth to his vomit, so a fool returneth to his folly

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mjmkjun

08/18/2021 04:11AM

It was tumblehome, Stumpy. ( HERE ) He initiated sending flowers and some others contributed. I missed out on it as I didn't see the post in a timely manner.
Wish I lived closer to the BWCA. I'd paddle with ya. You may be stubborn and set in your ways but you are not a jerk. Not according to what I've read through the years on this forum. I also may have detected a veiled sense of humor, too. :)

Hope fortune sends you many paddling partners in years that lay ahead. God keep you blessed.

“If I have seen further it is by standing on the shoulders of giants.” Sir Isaac Newton

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Basspro69

08/22/2021 12:57AM

So sorry for your loss, God bless her soul in heaven !

" I want to know Gods thoughts , The rest are details " Albert Einstein. WWJD

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Frenchy

08/22/2021 05:16AM

I am so sorry for your loss Stumpy, you have a beautiful angel watching over you.

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pastorjsackett

08/22/2021 05:44AM

We are with you across this medium, sending love and support.

God be with you Stumpy.

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Boppa

08/22/2021 12:37PM

Stumpy,
May she RIP and condolences sent to you. Her memory will always be able to bring tears to your eyes - But - the memories will lead to smiles as it validates what you both had for each other. It was unique and special and that will help sustain you to smile again when she visits you in your thoughts.
Boppa

"Yesterday is the past, Tomorrow is the future, Today is a GIFT, that is why it is called the present".

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Leo66

08/24/2021 07:35AM

So very sorry to read of your loss. I see the out pour of support and hope it can help you as you are going through this. My sincere condolences and I will keep you in my prayers. Please take care of you -
Leo66

Do not look to the ground for your next step; greatness lies with those who look to the horizon. --Norwegian Proverb

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Springer2

08/24/2021 09:38AM

Take care, best wishes, hope to run into you on the canoe trail sometime.

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Bogwalker

Moderator

08/24/2021 04:00PM

Stumpy, sorry for your loss. She will live on in your memories. Stop by and we can raise a glass in her honor next time you get to Ely.

"When a man is part of his canoe, he is part of all that canoes have ever known." Sigurd F. Olson WWJD

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GeoFisher

10/08/2021 05:35PM

Stumpy: "Bless you all !
I cried again, as I read through all the comments.
You are all wonderful.
It's been two weeks now & my heart is absolutely broken.
I'm alone now and open to canoe with others, but mind you, I'm a stubborn old jerk.
But I'm open to the idea...... canvas & Aluminum ;)
special thanks to Magic Paddler & Howard Sprague, & (nctry ?) or who ever bought the flowers ?

Again.... thank you all.... you all made me cry.... and that's good
LOVE "

I can be lured out of Retirement :)

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